Chris, I agree with everything you said. But, I started working as a minister making $3,000/yr in 1963 and I was going to school full-time. I was in college and theological seminary for five years after I started preaching and when I had my first full-time church in 1968, I was making a walloping $5200/yr. And we had two kids. My wife worked full time.
After 10 years in ministry, I was all the way up to $8K/yr. I left ministry and started selling real estate in 1973, planning on going back to school and getting either a Masters of Social Work or a Ph.D in counseling. But that was the year interest rates went from something like 7 1/2% in May to something over 10% by the end of June. Since Texas didn't allow a borrower to pay more than 10% interest, it was almost impossible to finance the purchase of a home in Texas from June of '73 till mid-76.
In '75, I went to work in the oilfield, doing dirty, physical manual labor as a drill collar inspector. I started at $3.25/hr and worked my way up to $3.85/hr. The good thing was that I was working an average of 92 hrs/wk. That brought me close to $2,000/month. The bad thing was that I was working an average of 92 hrs/wk. That was wearing me out and keeping me away from my family. After two yrs, I was "promoted" to a sales job, and only worked about 55 hrs/wk. But I only made about $1500/mo.
After two and half more years I was working in a management position and making about $60,000/yr.
Unfortunately for my finances, that was when I felt a call back to the ministry. I used my accumulated profit sharing money to pay off most of my debt, but I was back to making $18,000/yr. By the time my wife left me in '97, I was up to a bit over $50,000/yr, but, as I've mentioned before, she was awarded 62% of my personal contributions to my pension fund.
If i hadn't been for the divorce, I'd be in very good financial shape now. But I'd be married to a woman who I'm grateful to have as a friend, but supremely grateful not to be married to.
BTW, I always planned on working till 70. It fit with my skills, my interests, and the calling I understood myself to have to serve my congregation.
I'm glad you were able to manage your life so that you don't have the financial constraints I've got. Congratulations.
I'm happy with where I am. I worked hard and effectively. I've got enough. But I don't have much excess.
So there. Now, I'll go take my meds and go to bed.