Personally, I use the center stand almost weekly. Whenever I check tires and oil I put the NT up on the stand. It gets the tires free to rotate for inspections and the bike level for checking the oil. I also use it for washing the bike. Things are much easier to get to on the stand.
Now for the other side. I don't know how big or tall you are. I am 5' 6" and weigh 150 lb on a good day. Getting the bike on the stand is a bit of a challenge for me. I can offer some tips and technique to try.
1. Make sure the bike is in neutral and hold the clutch lever in. The back wheel must rotate or you will never get it onto the stand. (ask how I know :redface::redface
2. Lower the stand and make sure both feet (of the stand) are firmly planted.
3. Face the front of the bike with left hand on the left handle bar and right hand on the grab rail (palm outward is how I do it).
4. Rock forward and then backward jumping HARD on the center stand lever.
Bike should pop up onto the stand. I find that if the bike starts to move, it goes up, if it just sits there, I didn't jump hard enough. Sometimes takes two or three tries.
You might get someone to "spot" you few times until you get the feel of it. My dealer did for me when I took delivery of my NT.
Both my bikes have had stands and I don't think I would want a bike without one.
Hope this helps,
Chuck