All too common, John. I love BMWs. But I don't have the money. And I wouldn't put up with the aggravation.
A friend of mine here in Ft. Morgan always wanted a BMW. He's entangled financially and emotionally with his semi-ex-wife (he won't finalize the divorce for some reason, but hasn't lived with her for 8 years). His
ONLY transportation is his BMW R1200R. (or his bicycle... and I loaned him my car for about 8 months). His final drive failed on a bike with 27,000 miles on it. Repair was going to cost $2200. He finally found the right final drive on Craigslist for $300 from a bike that had been totaled at 74,000 miles. He decided that if the final drive had lasted that long, it had a better chance of lasting than a brand-new part. So he paid $300 for the part, did the work himself and had a bike again.
For all of about three weeks. Then it stopped running. He finally ended up replacing a bunch of electrical parts (can't remember what) for about $700. Now his bike has run for nearly two months without any trouble.
He still loves his BMW and wouldn't consider anything else.
I think he's got the same kind of issues with motorcycles that he does with women.